Teen Drama

Relationships. Drugs. Pressure.

It feel like teen years revolve around these things.

I would know because I'm living them as I write this out. I'm not going to complain about my teen problems on here, because it's simple. There is no need to complain about my issues because out there somewhere there is someone who has it much, much worse.

I feel like fighting out problems isn't the answer. But apologizing only makes you seem fake and weak in the eyes of most teens. Most boys seem to all get along for the most part. they either like someone or they don't and they make it known. 

Girls. They are truly something different. They are downright mean when they try.

If she is mature then she knows how to avoid drama. If shes' immature she goes out of her way to cause it. Those who want to cause it will make it unbearable for that girl who really just wants to fix the problem and move on.

I'v been in situations like these before, but i wouldn't say I'v been mature in every one of these, no one is right all the time. Life would be too easy and we'd never have mistakes to learn from if that were the case. It just comes down to that no one is perfect.

Facebook, aids teen drama. Most of it all begins there nowadays. 

he said. she said. what she did. what girl he was talking to. she posted that about her. etc.

Relationships are a big cause for it as well. Like i said I'm not perfect and i will admit i dated when i was only 13. If i was smarter i would have waited. I'm only 15 now so it's not a big stretch and i"m dating now.

Boys usually wanna date girls because they want to impress their friends. A very small handful, that do exist really just want to have a meaningful relationship or some are even smarter and realize they have bigger priorities than having a relationship. 

Girls are kind of the same way. Most see it as a status symbol. The more guys you have asking you out, the better that makes you apparently. But only the more attractive and confident girls usually feel that way. In most cases, less-attractive girls tend to be a lot sweeter and appreciate having a relationship more because they don't get as many opportunities or they know a good guy from a jerk.. 

But once again girls become more manipulative. They will try and steal guys from other girls to prove they are prettier and better than other girls. But in reality they may be hurting someone. I'm not saying all pretty girls are terrible, just most cocky girls are.

Another thing is drugs. We all got the peer pressure speech in health class in school so I'd just be repeating them by saying it here. I really don't think anyone is cool for smoking. There is nothing cool or attractive about intentionally hurting your body for pleasure. Even though most kids disregard what our teachers and parents tell us about drinking and smoking we soon realize that, they were usually right. But sometimes most kids who have tried it don't learn that soon enough.
In an ideal world, kids wouldn't worry about how they look, and how to impress the opposite gender. Middle school wouldn't have to be one of those things you just wanna close your eyes and run through.
Without struggle and mistakes though we would have nothing to learn from. so it seems like somedays there is no right or wrong answer on how to avoid teen drama.
What I'v learned though is to just try and avoid it. Be nice to someone, even though you do not think they deserve it, you wouldnt deserve it either if you dropped to their level.